Sorry, I forgot I had blog here.This happen when you got 3 life - 3 blog with 3 different account to maintain.
Just snippets :
1. Been traveling lots so spend my time mostly outside the house.Darling husband just gave me his Oct-Nov schedule ; he 's going to DBX and South Korea for visiting and I had to stay behind, take care the house and kids. Sure darling, just give me extra money and unlimited CC than everything is done.. hehehehhe
2. Nothing much happen with TTWD, as I was sick and we were busy around here to discuss or implement it. We kind of a normal person now, let say that we just take a break. Sometimes, you just have to give up on something when you have other priority. In this case, my health is more important.
3. When everything is back to it supposed to be, I will writing again.
Have a nice weekend!
Saturday, September 24, 2011
Monday, August 15, 2011
My history in DD
I reopen my older blog http://lifeofangelin.blogspot.com/ on DD, . Actually that the second blog, the first blog is from another account. You will understand better about me and my back ground, before you jump into conclusion, at least.
When I started blogging in 2008, it was hard. People judging me and said that I'm not fit in their community ( DD group). They taught my husband was too harsh on me because of our back ground. I guess they never come out from their place, they just judging base on what the west media reported in news. I choose this life style not because of my religion, but it something that I craved in my marriage. I don t want to be an arrogant and stubborn wife anymore. I want a healthy marriage and here I am now.
We're a normal person outside the house. When we went out, we were more like best friend, best buddies. We never shared about our life style with other people. Sometimes its hard to pretending something you're not but no choice, as long we're happy with it, it doesn't really matter.
Now I'm back to my hometown, the place I grow up and spend 23 years here. I'm so thankful because I got a chance to go out and stay in Canada for 5 years, learned a new culture, life style, people and yes, I know about DD on my third year there. It was a trial n error and now it been a part of our life.
In http://lifeofangelin.blogspot.com/2008/12/snippets-things-that-made-me-upset-and.html, will explain how I feel and going through the hard time with DD community. Because of the stupid jokes- Thing that u shouldn't said to your spouse during spanking. Because I said "You're spank like a gay "is something you shouldn't say to your spouse during spanking. I mean it. But others think its disrespectful to the community. I'm sorry, I don't have any intention to condemn any gay out there. its only what I think we shouldn't said like that to our spouse, because I respect my HOH. That was the ending of my connection with DD friend/group.community. I don't get a chance to defense my self at that time. You were so harsh to me and I will never forget about what you write to me. There's no way I'll go back there. Now, after 4 years, I'm proud to stand by myself, without any support group.
Feel free to ask and will try to answer my best.
Thanks you for reading this.
Angelin aka Elin.
Gosh... I'm so relieve after writhing this.. after three years... and if "YOU" accidentally reading this, please leave me alone, I'm moved on but I won't forget what you did to me.
When I started blogging in 2008, it was hard. People judging me and said that I'm not fit in their community ( DD group). They taught my husband was too harsh on me because of our back ground. I guess they never come out from their place, they just judging base on what the west media reported in news. I choose this life style not because of my religion, but it something that I craved in my marriage. I don t want to be an arrogant and stubborn wife anymore. I want a healthy marriage and here I am now.
We're a normal person outside the house. When we went out, we were more like best friend, best buddies. We never shared about our life style with other people. Sometimes its hard to pretending something you're not but no choice, as long we're happy with it, it doesn't really matter.
Now I'm back to my hometown, the place I grow up and spend 23 years here. I'm so thankful because I got a chance to go out and stay in Canada for 5 years, learned a new culture, life style, people and yes, I know about DD on my third year there. It was a trial n error and now it been a part of our life.
In http://lifeofangelin.blogspot.com/2008/12/snippets-things-that-made-me-upset-and.html, will explain how I feel and going through the hard time with DD community. Because of the stupid jokes- Thing that u shouldn't said to your spouse during spanking. Because I said "You're spank like a gay "is something you shouldn't say to your spouse during spanking. I mean it. But others think its disrespectful to the community. I'm sorry, I don't have any intention to condemn any gay out there. its only what I think we shouldn't said like that to our spouse, because I respect my HOH. That was the ending of my connection with DD friend/group.community. I don't get a chance to defense my self at that time. You were so harsh to me and I will never forget about what you write to me. There's no way I'll go back there. Now, after 4 years, I'm proud to stand by myself, without any support group.
Feel free to ask and will try to answer my best.
Thanks you for reading this.
Angelin aka Elin.
Gosh... I'm so relieve after writhing this.. after three years... and if "YOU" accidentally reading this, please leave me alone, I'm moved on but I won't forget what you did to me.
Friday, August 12, 2011
Another punisment for being disrecpectful
Confession:
I spend all the money that were given for monthly budget. its August 12 and I'm broke, ok! What I'm gonna do?
Last night, he caned me, really hard. I accidentally broke a new serving plate that I bought last month. I had a habit into find someone to blame. So I tell him, if he didn't asked me to open that cabinet, the plate won't fall down and break into pieces. To make it more worse, I told him I don't mind at all, because I used CC to buy it, so technically its not my money. Being HOH , of course he not happy with my attitude. I don't know why I said like that. I mean, I really frustrated because that's the last plate I got in that shop and I haven't got a chance to use it.
So we had a date later at night. I know I will get a cane, but somehow I try to escape it, so I gave him a scrapper.
"Where 's the cane ? "
"How about this? "
"No, this is for punishment, not for you pleasures. You better obey me of I give double to you,
"Ok "
"You know why I have to cane you? "
"I clean up the house, and dinner is ready is ready when you're home, '
"Thank you, I really appreciate that. Now tell me, what did you did during dinner? "
"Er.. because I broke the plate , "
"Not really, I know things happen but you being disrespectful to me by saying its not your money. You're careless, and you didn't want to admit it ,instead you put the blame on me. I don't want this attitude anymore, not from my wife. "
"I'm sorry, "
"Now take of your clothes and bend over the table, "
"How many? I just want to know, "
"I'll decided ! "
The cane seem took forever and its hurt. I did move at first and he warned me, if I didn't submit to him, I will get more and the hard one. Ok, focus.. it will gone, soon.
"No, I can't! "
" Get down and bend on the floor, "
"No, that's gonna be freaking hurt , "
"I told you to submit but you didn't.
"I'm, sorry.. please..."
He finished with 20 strokes. I thanked him after that. He hugged and told me that I'm forgiven. He send me to bed so I can rest and later joined me, cuddled me and we had a great sex. Sex always comforting me after caning. Its ok, as long both of us enjoyed it , so why not?
Just a little note, I didn't advice canning for beginner. It took many years to practice. Hey, practice make perfect, right?
Ok, back to the story. I spend all the money. I'd lost track this month. I know why and I hope he will correct it. I hope he will be more strict to me on money spending. I hope he spank me for using CC more than the limit he told so. I wish... he spank every dollar I waste on buying take out food because I'm so lazy to cook.
But I still want that Prada, ok :))
I spend all the money that were given for monthly budget. its August 12 and I'm broke, ok! What I'm gonna do?
Last night, he caned me, really hard. I accidentally broke a new serving plate that I bought last month. I had a habit into find someone to blame. So I tell him, if he didn't asked me to open that cabinet, the plate won't fall down and break into pieces. To make it more worse, I told him I don't mind at all, because I used CC to buy it, so technically its not my money. Being HOH , of course he not happy with my attitude. I don't know why I said like that. I mean, I really frustrated because that's the last plate I got in that shop and I haven't got a chance to use it.
So we had a date later at night. I know I will get a cane, but somehow I try to escape it, so I gave him a scrapper.
"Where 's the cane ? "
"How about this? "
"No, this is for punishment, not for you pleasures. You better obey me of I give double to you,
"Ok "
"You know why I have to cane you? "
"I clean up the house, and dinner is ready is ready when you're home, '
"Thank you, I really appreciate that. Now tell me, what did you did during dinner? "
"Er.. because I broke the plate , "
"Not really, I know things happen but you being disrespectful to me by saying its not your money. You're careless, and you didn't want to admit it ,instead you put the blame on me. I don't want this attitude anymore, not from my wife. "
"I'm sorry, "
"Now take of your clothes and bend over the table, "
"How many? I just want to know, "
"I'll decided ! "
The cane seem took forever and its hurt. I did move at first and he warned me, if I didn't submit to him, I will get more and the hard one. Ok, focus.. it will gone, soon.
"No, I can't! "
" Get down and bend on the floor, "
"No, that's gonna be freaking hurt , "
"I told you to submit but you didn't.
"I'm, sorry.. please..."
He finished with 20 strokes. I thanked him after that. He hugged and told me that I'm forgiven. He send me to bed so I can rest and later joined me, cuddled me and we had a great sex. Sex always comforting me after caning. Its ok, as long both of us enjoyed it , so why not?
Just a little note, I didn't advice canning for beginner. It took many years to practice. Hey, practice make perfect, right?
Ok, back to the story. I spend all the money. I'd lost track this month. I know why and I hope he will correct it. I hope he will be more strict to me on money spending. I hope he spank me for using CC more than the limit he told so. I wish... he spank every dollar I waste on buying take out food because I'm so lazy to cook.
But I still want that Prada, ok :))
Friday, August 5, 2011
August challenge: 1,2,3 ...
I want to buy more time, can I?
I was a bit disorganized and procrastinated this few weeks. There is something distract me; winning a contest. I'm addicted join contest. It was happened last April when my kids won photo contest, then I won Coach handbag on the next month, and another until yesterday, I got few vouchers for KFC and books. I kept and couldn't stop. Its fun, I mean who doesn't like winning and getting something for free.
But someone was not very happy with this. Ok , I'll give all my movie tickets that I won to him because there is no way I'm going to watch movie with my kids. ( they might screaming in cinema, although I think its cool to bring them to watch Car Movies but my husband won't approve because of the age). So last 2 days, we had a date .
"Three things that I want you to do this month ; first, settle the kids in the morning. Second, the house must be topless when I come home in the evening. Third, dinner is ready , at least almost ready. It doesn't matter you cook or buy it, as long as I come home, I don't want to see you with your netbook while the cooking is not done. Do you understand? "
"What about if I fail to do so? "
"Do you see this cane? "
"Yes sir, "
"Good, now I'm going to give you reminder so that you will remember your duty and who is the king in this house , "
"Now? "
"Take off your pants , "
The canes is hurt, but not so hurt like the previous day.He told me that he will make sure I will get more if I fail to complete the task. We'll see.
Day 1, I completed the task before he coming home. Day 2, had to cheat a little bit; take away food from restaurant. Day 3 which is tomorrow, we will have company at our place for dinner so automatically my house will be topless. Day 4, may be we should dining out. Day 5, hem... think.. think.....
I think its time to buy Emilie Barnes book, or may be Martha Stewart. I just need motivation to keep on the track.
So this is my August challenge. Wish me a luck!
Another challenge is to win a trip to Bangkok for whole family.... hehehehhehe
I was a bit disorganized and procrastinated this few weeks. There is something distract me; winning a contest. I'm addicted join contest. It was happened last April when my kids won photo contest, then I won Coach handbag on the next month, and another until yesterday, I got few vouchers for KFC and books. I kept and couldn't stop. Its fun, I mean who doesn't like winning and getting something for free.
But someone was not very happy with this. Ok , I'll give all my movie tickets that I won to him because there is no way I'm going to watch movie with my kids. ( they might screaming in cinema, although I think its cool to bring them to watch Car Movies but my husband won't approve because of the age). So last 2 days, we had a date .
"Three things that I want you to do this month ; first, settle the kids in the morning. Second, the house must be topless when I come home in the evening. Third, dinner is ready , at least almost ready. It doesn't matter you cook or buy it, as long as I come home, I don't want to see you with your netbook while the cooking is not done. Do you understand? "
"What about if I fail to do so? "
"Do you see this cane? "
"Yes sir, "
"Good, now I'm going to give you reminder so that you will remember your duty and who is the king in this house , "
"Now? "
"Take off your pants , "
The canes is hurt, but not so hurt like the previous day.He told me that he will make sure I will get more if I fail to complete the task. We'll see.
Day 1, I completed the task before he coming home. Day 2, had to cheat a little bit; take away food from restaurant. Day 3 which is tomorrow, we will have company at our place for dinner so automatically my house will be topless. Day 4, may be we should dining out. Day 5, hem... think.. think.....
I think its time to buy Emilie Barnes book, or may be Martha Stewart. I just need motivation to keep on the track.
So this is my August challenge. Wish me a luck!
Another challenge is to win a trip to Bangkok for whole family.... hehehehhehe
Thursday, August 4, 2011
Angelin's survey
I know i been missing for long, I'm too busy with life, I wish I can buy more time.
Since everyone do this survey, why not me?
What is your screen name?
Angelin
How long have you been practicing TTWD?
4 years
What is your astrological sign?
Libra
In what part of the country do you live?
Southeast Asia
Do you have children?
yes, two son
Do you have grandchildren?
nope
What is your favorite color?
blue and red
What is your favorite day of the week?
Saturday
Morning or Evening?
Morning
Favorite TV Show?
Desperate Housewife, How I meet your mother, Leverage,Justified
Favorite pro sport?
Football
Favorite Ice Cream?
Mango flavor from Baskin Robbin
Person from Blogland you'd like to meet?
Anyone who want to meet me :)
Person from Blogland who makes you laugh?
Stormy , Kay and Kitty
Person from Blogland you identify with the most?
Danielle from Becoming Adam's Angel, I guess she stop blogging now
First person who welcomed you to blogging?
I don't remember , it was long time ago
Title of your first blog entry?
King and his Angel
What are you wearing on your feet right now?
Nothing
What are you listening to right now
Nothing
Chocolate or Vanilla?
Chocolate
Coffee or Tea?
Black coffee
Favorite non-alcoholic drink?
Tropicana orange juice
Favorite alcoholic drink?
I don't drink
Favorite vacation spot?
all premium outlet in States
Favorite Holiday?
June.. its a school break, like summer holiday in Western countries
Favorite season?
leaving in hot and humid weather all the year, there is no season at all. Back in Canada, I like summer.
Place you want to visit?
Australia, New Zealand and European countries
If you had to start all over again, would you still choose TTWD?
Yes
Best piece of advice you can pass on about TTWD?
Don't expect him to read your mind, just tell him what you need. Always discuss and respect each other.
Since everyone do this survey, why not me?
Angelin
How long have you been practicing TTWD?
4 years
What is your astrological sign?
Libra
In what part of the country do you live?
Southeast Asia
Do you have children?
yes, two son
Do you have grandchildren?
nope
What is your favorite color?
blue and red
What is your favorite day of the week?
Saturday
Morning or Evening?
Morning
Favorite TV Show?
Desperate Housewife, How I meet your mother, Leverage,Justified
Favorite pro sport?
Football
Favorite Ice Cream?
Mango flavor from Baskin Robbin
Person from Blogland you'd like to meet?
Anyone who want to meet me :)
Person from Blogland who makes you laugh?
Stormy , Kay and Kitty
Person from Blogland you identify with the most?
Danielle from Becoming Adam's Angel, I guess she stop blogging now
First person who welcomed you to blogging?
I don't remember , it was long time ago
Title of your first blog entry?
King and his Angel
What are you wearing on your feet right now?
Nothing
What are you listening to right now
Nothing
Chocolate or Vanilla?
Chocolate
Coffee or Tea?
Black coffee
Favorite non-alcoholic drink?
Tropicana orange juice
Favorite alcoholic drink?
I don't drink
Favorite vacation spot?
all premium outlet in States
Favorite Holiday?
June.. its a school break, like summer holiday in Western countries
Favorite season?
leaving in hot and humid weather all the year, there is no season at all. Back in Canada, I like summer.
Place you want to visit?
Australia, New Zealand and European countries
If you had to start all over again, would you still choose TTWD?
Yes
Best piece of advice you can pass on about TTWD?
Don't expect him to read your mind, just tell him what you need. Always discuss and respect each other.
Wednesday, July 13, 2011
Spanking during vacation
I'm on the road for 4 days. It was a hectic and pack journey, we moved to one place to another place and with the hot and humid weather, kids acting .. really tensed me. So last night, King decided its time for me to get spanking because I'd been grumpy and disrespectful to him . And also I scream at the kids a lot because they're really testing their mum!!!
We're in hotel with 2 kids. We got to wait until midnite for spanking session. No cane , no paddle , only his belt. Actually I saw wooden coat hanger in the closet but I don't want to take a risk. Never try it before and I don't know how much pain I would get from that hanger. We turn the shower n tap water, close the bathroom door and he began to spank and lecture me. Hopefully nobody hear it.
This is the first time I got spanking during vacation. I accepted it because I know I deserved it. He loved me and will do anything to make me happy . I'm a happy spank-able wife :))
So kids, we're going to botanical garden today while daddy visiting sites . Weather, please be kind to me today.
We're in hotel with 2 kids. We got to wait until midnite for spanking session. No cane , no paddle , only his belt. Actually I saw wooden coat hanger in the closet but I don't want to take a risk. Never try it before and I don't know how much pain I would get from that hanger. We turn the shower n tap water, close the bathroom door and he began to spank and lecture me. Hopefully nobody hear it.
This is the first time I got spanking during vacation. I accepted it because I know I deserved it. He loved me and will do anything to make me happy . I'm a happy spank-able wife :))
So kids, we're going to botanical garden today while daddy visiting sites . Weather, please be kind to me today.
Friday, July 8, 2011
Another punishment
Mum and dad finally went home. My older kids got night class and the baby was asleep. We just finished watching Leverage season 3 ( repeated)
"Did I do anything wrong today, "
"Yes , "
"What did I do? Or may be I should ask this, what you gonna do? "
"Up stairs, now! "
Glup...
He took the cane from the office and pointed me to the bedroom. I think I shouldn't argue this time; I'm hungry n lets finished it!
"I don't approve your behavior this morning. How many time I told you never to raise your voice over me. Even if I did something wrong, you cannot yell at me , "
"I'm sorry , "
"Take of your pants and bend over the bed , "
I moved my jeans slowly and bend over
"The panties too , "
"But ...."
"Now! "
I pulled the panties half, because I'm wearing a pad n its my third day of period, ok!
The canning is hurt this time, I don 't enjoy any of strokes. But the great thing is, everything is settled and we had a great dinner at Chinese restaurant.
The end.
"Did I do anything wrong today, "
"Yes , "
"What did I do? Or may be I should ask this, what you gonna do? "
"Up stairs, now! "
Glup...
He took the cane from the office and pointed me to the bedroom. I think I shouldn't argue this time; I'm hungry n lets finished it!
"I don't approve your behavior this morning. How many time I told you never to raise your voice over me. Even if I did something wrong, you cannot yell at me , "
"I'm sorry , "
"Take of your pants and bend over the bed , "
I moved my jeans slowly and bend over
"The panties too , "
"But ...."
"Now! "
I pulled the panties half, because I'm wearing a pad n its my third day of period, ok!
The canning is hurt this time, I don 't enjoy any of strokes. But the great thing is, everything is settled and we had a great dinner at Chinese restaurant.
The end.
Thursday, July 7, 2011
Snippet for this week
Snippets
1. I did get spanking for damaging car- 30 strokes with canes.. and I really enjoyed it. Excuse me? It was great, is not really hurt. Well it suppose to be hurt but not that hurt.
2. My parents stayed with us for 4 days and actually arrived during his birthday. Did I get the birthday spanking? Of course I did, I'm not sure they listened or not. If they asked, I will simply answer, we were playing :))
3. I didn't get a chance to buy a new cane for him as his birthday present, as my mother always by my side every time we went out.
4. We combined the birthday celebration at Pizza Hutt because I'm so lazy to cook any special dish.
5. I'm so lazy this few days, may be because I got help lots from my parents.
6. I got fight with him this morning. I'm so mad because he didn't wake me up as usually and as a result off, I'm such in hurry and start blaming him. He not happy with my tone so he told me to stop complaining and start to work. Frustrated with him, I decided to stay on bed and sleep with my baby. I let him settled our son. All the best to him !!!
7. Mum and dad just go home . Will I get spanking tonite for being rude to him this morning? I don't know, wish me a luck.
1. I did get spanking for damaging car- 30 strokes with canes.. and I really enjoyed it. Excuse me? It was great, is not really hurt. Well it suppose to be hurt but not that hurt.
2. My parents stayed with us for 4 days and actually arrived during his birthday. Did I get the birthday spanking? Of course I did, I'm not sure they listened or not. If they asked, I will simply answer, we were playing :))
3. I didn't get a chance to buy a new cane for him as his birthday present, as my mother always by my side every time we went out.
4. We combined the birthday celebration at Pizza Hutt because I'm so lazy to cook any special dish.
5. I'm so lazy this few days, may be because I got help lots from my parents.
6. I got fight with him this morning. I'm so mad because he didn't wake me up as usually and as a result off, I'm such in hurry and start blaming him. He not happy with my tone so he told me to stop complaining and start to work. Frustrated with him, I decided to stay on bed and sleep with my baby. I let him settled our son. All the best to him !!!
7. Mum and dad just go home . Will I get spanking tonite for being rude to him this morning? I don't know, wish me a luck.
Tuesday, June 28, 2011
Opss.. I did it again
I hit our car again.. damn!
It happened when I park the car and hit the divider. Not a minor scratch but HUGE, ok! And its a brand new car.
To be honest, this is the third time actually and the first time he let it go, the second time I didn't tell him, so he assumed his fault ( because he hit our gate after the incident, lucky me ) .
I'm planning to tell him later at night but my son break it during dinner time.
"Mum scratch the car again , "
"Finish your food and stop talking , "
"I say, mum scratch the car again , "
I gave a look to him. You little kid, can't u just let mummy handle this thing?
"So, you hit the car again , how was it ? "
"Its kind a big scratch this time . You're not going to cut my allowance, don't you, "
"We'll see the damage first, "
Did I get the spanking? I don't know. I never get spank for spending or damaging stuff. Lucky me? I'm not sure.
Question: If this incident happen to you, will your HOH spank you?
Just curious to know. Thank you.
It happened when I park the car and hit the divider. Not a minor scratch but HUGE, ok! And its a brand new car.
To be honest, this is the third time actually and the first time he let it go, the second time I didn't tell him, so he assumed his fault ( because he hit our gate after the incident, lucky me ) .
I'm planning to tell him later at night but my son break it during dinner time.
"Mum scratch the car again , "
"Finish your food and stop talking , "
"I say, mum scratch the car again , "
I gave a look to him. You little kid, can't u just let mummy handle this thing?
"So, you hit the car again , how was it ? "
"Its kind a big scratch this time . You're not going to cut my allowance, don't you, "
"We'll see the damage first, "
Did I get the spanking? I don't know. I never get spank for spending or damaging stuff. Lucky me? I'm not sure.
Question: If this incident happen to you, will your HOH spank you?
Just curious to know. Thank you.
Fascinating Womanhood
How many of you own and read this book? I was introduced to this book during my first year in TTWD but i refused to buy. Then 2 years later somebody gave me a free e book of The Secret of Fascinating Womanhood. After reading it, I know what missing in our life . It was me, I tried to change my husband to become other person. Immediately, I place an order for the book and start to read.
I"m not good in writing but all I can say is this book helps me to understand why I should submit to my husband, what is my role as a wife and mother and why I should trust my husband decision.
If I found myself struggling to submit my husband, I will read this book again. It covers every aspect in this life. TTWD is not enough for me to be a better wife and with the combination with Fascinating Womanhood, it just perfect. I'm still reading this book now .
If anyone want to buy this book, they can get at Amazon. Just type Fascinating Womanhood by Helen Andelin.
Monday, June 27, 2011
What to do in July
I had few things to do next month ( notes for myself)
1. Recycling project with my 6 year old son on the first Saturday
2. Sending entry for San Remo's contest ( hope to win something )
3. One week road trip
4. Husband's birthday- what should I get for him?
5. Mum's birthday
6. Shopping with mum?
How you surprise your husband during his birthday? Can we give them a birthday spanking? Or give them a spanking coupon so they can redeem it?
1. Recycling project with my 6 year old son on the first Saturday
2. Sending entry for San Remo's contest ( hope to win something )
3. One week road trip
4. Husband's birthday- what should I get for him?
5. Mum's birthday
6. Shopping with mum?
How you surprise your husband during his birthday? Can we give them a birthday spanking? Or give them a spanking coupon so they can redeem it?
Saturday, June 25, 2011
Another week without spanking
This is the worse week; no spanking, no shopping and everyone in the house is sick.
Dis I say no spanking? Yes.....
He suggested me to go shopping by my myself today, get a new n quality shoes and no more spending on clothes! Ok, I'll get it. You'll see, even though I was born as shopaholic, I still consider myself as a bargain hunter. My husband will pick up high quality, branded and expensive stuff but his wife prefer something good but less than that. That's why I ended up bought 3 pairs of shoes early this year and it didn't work well with my feet.
"You're going to get Scholl today,
"But its too expensive, I can get 3 pairs with that price, "
"I want you to get a quality and comfy shoes , "
"Hem...
"Ok, I give you another hundred"
"Ok set , "
:))
I loved my life, and I loved my husband too :)
I don't get spank for spending and I don't wish for it. Of course we had rules on spending, a very simple one; just let him know if I want to use a credit card. I repeated, let him know, not asking a permission. But I know my limits, I don't want my husband ended up in bad debts.
Ok ladies... lets go shopping
Dis I say no spanking? Yes.....
He suggested me to go shopping by my myself today, get a new n quality shoes and no more spending on clothes! Ok, I'll get it. You'll see, even though I was born as shopaholic, I still consider myself as a bargain hunter. My husband will pick up high quality, branded and expensive stuff but his wife prefer something good but less than that. That's why I ended up bought 3 pairs of shoes early this year and it didn't work well with my feet.
"You're going to get Scholl today,
"But its too expensive, I can get 3 pairs with that price, "
"I want you to get a quality and comfy shoes , "
"Hem...
"Ok, I give you another hundred"
"Ok set , "
:))
I loved my life, and I loved my husband too :)
I don't get spank for spending and I don't wish for it. Of course we had rules on spending, a very simple one; just let him know if I want to use a credit card. I repeated, let him know, not asking a permission. But I know my limits, I don't want my husband ended up in bad debts.
Ok ladies... lets go shopping
Wednesday, June 22, 2011
I'm the boss in the house
I just finished cooking for dinner, kids were fighting on something and their daddy was resting on the bed.
I just ignored, ok? I sit in front of my netbook, and start FBing. Suddenly, my husband ask me to switch off.
"No way, I'm done cooking , "
"Switch the netbook, now! "
"Bossy ! "
I leave my netbook, and went upstairs. He followed me.
"You just love being bossy, don't you? "I asked him.
"Yes, because I'm the boss in this house, "
I sat on his lap.
"I know why you bossy with me. Lets have a date tonite, "
"Are you feeling better now?
"So-so. I try to slow down today and if it didn't get any better, may be I'll take gas at clinic tomorrow? "
I got asthma attack early this week. It comes once in a blue moon. I haven't got any spanking for a week, just a playful swat which I like it. He knows when I'm in this condition, I had to slow down and more resting.
Ok, time to get to bed. Have a good day everyone :)
I just ignored, ok? I sit in front of my netbook, and start FBing. Suddenly, my husband ask me to switch off.
"No way, I'm done cooking , "
"Switch the netbook, now! "
"Bossy ! "
I leave my netbook, and went upstairs. He followed me.
"You just love being bossy, don't you? "I asked him.
"Yes, because I'm the boss in this house, "
I sat on his lap.
"I know why you bossy with me. Lets have a date tonite, "
"Are you feeling better now?
"So-so. I try to slow down today and if it didn't get any better, may be I'll take gas at clinic tomorrow? "
I got asthma attack early this week. It comes once in a blue moon. I haven't got any spanking for a week, just a playful swat which I like it. He knows when I'm in this condition, I had to slow down and more resting.
Ok, time to get to bed. Have a good day everyone :)
Monday, June 20, 2011
Preemptive spanking
I was away last week for family vacation. Almost lost contact with outside world as Vietnam block FB. Miss those chit chat n gossiping with girlfriends.
Before we leave, I got reminder/preemptive spanking from my husband. He told me, if I cross the line during the trip, I'll get 40 strokes with cane for each crime I summit . Is he serious? I normally got 30 for each mistakes and the maximum I can take the cane probably 70 strokes? Is that possible to avoid this?
Being four years in DD marriage, and we been traveled all over the world; France, Germany, Hong Kong, States, Canada etc and I tell you, its almost impossible for me to stay calm if we lost. I provoked him, pouting, make a scene blablablabla.. just name it.And guess...
Five days in Ho Chi Minh, I stay out from trouble! I guess the shopping therapy helps me a lot :)) . I'd surprised with myself, and so him. If you read my previous entry, we had an issue before we leave for holiday. I guess this vacation bring us back together in a right track.
Before we leave, I got reminder/preemptive spanking from my husband. He told me, if I cross the line during the trip, I'll get 40 strokes with cane for each crime I summit . Is he serious? I normally got 30 for each mistakes and the maximum I can take the cane probably 70 strokes? Is that possible to avoid this?
Being four years in DD marriage, and we been traveled all over the world; France, Germany, Hong Kong, States, Canada etc and I tell you, its almost impossible for me to stay calm if we lost. I provoked him, pouting, make a scene blablablabla.. just name it.And guess...
Five days in Ho Chi Minh, I stay out from trouble! I guess the shopping therapy helps me a lot :)) . I'd surprised with myself, and so him. If you read my previous entry, we had an issue before we leave for holiday. I guess this vacation bring us back together in a right track.
Friday, June 10, 2011
My Loving Domestic Discipline Contract
I was browsing my old pen drive and found this. I might copy from somebody blog n change a little bit to suite myself. Credit to the original writer, I'm sorry I couldn't remember her. May be from C's correction blog, I had to check later.
This contract was written down somewhere in 2007, and the LDD term was used during that time. LDD- Loving Domestic Discipline .
This contract was written down somewhere in 2007, and the LDD term was used during that time. LDD- Loving Domestic Discipline .
My LDD Contract:
Husband, in helping me to maintain total respect, obedience, honesty and submission I have drafted up this contract between us:
1) I will never hold up the disciplinary process by arguing the justification of my punishment spankings. Whether just/unjust I will receive and graciously accept.2) I will never procrastinate and try and stall the disciplinary process.
3) I will never refuse the disciplinary process, even I’m sleepy, tired or in period time.--> if i sleep, don't ever bother to wake me up because i won't hear you
4) I will never brat you into spanking me.
5) I will never remind you to punish me if you so happen to forget. (But will journal this forgetfulness and my feelings associated with it.)--> I'm so glad no to remind you
6) I will never cover up my bottom with my hands or buck with my feet to try and stop the flow of your loving correction.--> I ran... hahahhahahha7) I will never plead for you to stop spanking me; tell you how much it hurts, or how sorry I am in the hope of you stopping - unless you request it I won't say anything at all.
8) I will be respectful at all times during the disciplinary process – if it really hurts I will bite my lip, or hold a pillow to my face. After all "Discipline is meant to hurt, but never harm." -> don't spank my thigh, it hurts like a hell
9) I will always keep my position during spanking. -> That impossible honey
10) I will always apologize to you before my discipline.
11) I will always thank you after my discipline.
12) I will always describe what I have learnt after my discipline and I will listen to your leadership and advice in how to resolve my bad behavior. I will offer you strategies and we will discuss how I will try to maintain my desired behavior.
13) I will always keep my journal up to date – where I will concentrate on the 3 D’s (Disobedience, Disrespect, and Dishonesty), confess everything I did on that day and also record my punishment spankings. --> I'm too busy with kids, FBing, chatting with girlfriends, i don't have a time to write any journal
14) I will always present you with my journal every night before 9.00 P.M so you will have enough time to read and prepared forgiving punishment spanking to me.--> I'm so busy clean up the kitchen during this time
15) If I feel compulsion to engage in my most serious and dangerous offence then I will ALWAYS talk with you on the phone/YM that I can feel the full benefit of your support.--> no FB account during that time?
I hope you found my tone respectful and not demanding. I’m trying SO hard to be a good wife. --> you just said I'm demanding this week.
With love always,
Angelin
So that was me four years ago, who just discover DD and expect everything to be perfect like in contract. The reality is... keep on spanking and spanking until we learn :))
Am I demanding? Part 2
I couldn't finish this entry yesterday as he was home when i type the last sentence. He know i had a blog, but he didn't know I blogging about him. Sometimes, thing are better left unsaid, especially when it comes about his family.
Let's continue the talk.
"Do you know how much we spend every months?
"I don't know. It's your job to handle the financial. All I have to do is asking :)) "
"But you're asking too much , "
'Darling, I won't push you into something that you couldn't afford , if you can't granted my wish, please give me another option such as we can make small cabinet for the kitchen which only cost around 1k..( your mum spend 2.8K for the party last month and you didn't say any words about it )
Ok.. now I'm comparing with my MIL. This is not so good, I hope he won't read this entry or it gonna be WWIII.
I'm sorry darling I cannot be the perfect daughter in law. I tried hard ( may be not so hard) but I tired being hypocrite . Sometimes i felt you neglected me , my feeling and my opinion when it comes with your mother wish. This reminds me of the Irish proverb, " A man loves his sweetheart the most, his wife the best, but his mother the longest. "
We're leaving for vacation tomorrow. I hope we'll have a great time together and pretty sure tonite we gonna have a date- maintenance, reminder and pre-emptive spanking is waiting for me..Horray!
Let's continue the talk.
"Do you know how much we spend every months?
"I don't know. It's your job to handle the financial. All I have to do is asking :)) "
"But you're asking too much , "
'Darling, I won't push you into something that you couldn't afford , if you can't granted my wish, please give me another option such as we can make small cabinet for the kitchen which only cost around 1k..( your mum spend 2.8K for the party last month and you didn't say any words about it )
Ok.. now I'm comparing with my MIL. This is not so good, I hope he won't read this entry or it gonna be WWIII.
I'm sorry darling I cannot be the perfect daughter in law. I tried hard ( may be not so hard) but I tired being hypocrite . Sometimes i felt you neglected me , my feeling and my opinion when it comes with your mother wish. This reminds me of the Irish proverb, " A man loves his sweetheart the most, his wife the best, but his mother the longest. "
We're leaving for vacation tomorrow. I hope we'll have a great time together and pretty sure tonite we gonna have a date- maintenance, reminder and pre-emptive spanking is waiting for me..Horray!
Thursday, June 9, 2011
Am I demanding? Part 1
"You're demanding , "
"Such as? "
"New kitchen"
I'd been asking that since we're in Canada."
"Prada? "
"every woman should have at least one ( in my case 2) designer handbags
'Vacation every 6 months ? "
"Hem, what's wrong with it? We need holiday, just for us. ( you make a trip to your parents every month and it took 9 hours to reach there! ) "
"Do you know how much we spend every months?
ops... he's home now. later ...
"Such as? "
"New kitchen"
I'd been asking that since we're in Canada."
"Prada? "
"every woman should have at least one ( in my case 2) designer handbags
'Vacation every 6 months ? "
"Hem, what's wrong with it? We need holiday, just for us. ( you make a trip to your parents every month and it took 9 hours to reach there! ) "
"Do you know how much we spend every months?
ops... he's home now. later ...
Blogging again?
This is a brand new blog actually. I though I should start a new blog, chapter n may be life?
When I first blogging about DD or TTWD, I received lots of judgements from those who claims she so call expert n senior in DD. I like to play with graphic n pictures, n one of the reader told me that I'm not fit in this life style because I'm more to BDSM. Hello! You cannot just judging people like that ok. Just because I put the photo of kneeling woman and writing 'submission' entry, you're labeling me BDSM? I was new in TTWD and still learning and Google-ing . I still remember my first reference was LDD book . ( Loving Domestic Discipline by Mr LDD). The LDD blog had shut down n those who wonder what is LDD, I still have the soft copt of that book. You know where to find me :))
What I'm trying to say, we cannot simply judging people from her/his writing. I don't think we able to write n explain in details everything in our entry. Do ask if you want to know more but don't simply judging and making assumption. Example, some people though spanking using hanger is cruel, some think caning is very harsh n others would think daily maintainence is too much . I think it depends on us, how we handle and take it. During my early DD days, my husband spank me twice, early in the morning n after he back from work for maintenance . ( that's not includes punishment, pr- emptive n disobedient spanking, ok ) It gets tiring because I kept repeat the same mistakes and he getting frustrating because he thought I just want spanking and purposely cross the line to get spank. Then we stop daily maintenance , we used reminder which can take anytime when he think I need and I can nicely asked him if I need it. So that's what we do now.
"Darling, can I ask something? "
"Now what?
"Err.. I need some reminder to keep back in track , "Gulp... can't believe I'm actually asking this.
"I'm glad you asking it, instead of provoking and brat -ing to me, "
20 strokes with canes, and I shall be good for a week.. hope so :))
So what do you think?20 strokes is just nothing to me, as I had an iron butt like my husband said. It just to remind whose the boss in the house and my duty as a wife n mother. That''s it. And I usually submit it well. It works well with me, so far.
When I first blogging about DD or TTWD, I received lots of judgements from those who claims she so call expert n senior in DD. I like to play with graphic n pictures, n one of the reader told me that I'm not fit in this life style because I'm more to BDSM. Hello! You cannot just judging people like that ok. Just because I put the photo of kneeling woman and writing 'submission' entry, you're labeling me BDSM? I was new in TTWD and still learning and Google-ing . I still remember my first reference was LDD book . ( Loving Domestic Discipline by Mr LDD). The LDD blog had shut down n those who wonder what is LDD, I still have the soft copt of that book. You know where to find me :))
What I'm trying to say, we cannot simply judging people from her/his writing. I don't think we able to write n explain in details everything in our entry. Do ask if you want to know more but don't simply judging and making assumption. Example, some people though spanking using hanger is cruel, some think caning is very harsh n others would think daily maintainence is too much . I think it depends on us, how we handle and take it. During my early DD days, my husband spank me twice, early in the morning n after he back from work for maintenance . ( that's not includes punishment, pr- emptive n disobedient spanking, ok ) It gets tiring because I kept repeat the same mistakes and he getting frustrating because he thought I just want spanking and purposely cross the line to get spank. Then we stop daily maintenance , we used reminder which can take anytime when he think I need and I can nicely asked him if I need it. So that's what we do now.
"Darling, can I ask something? "
"Now what?
"Err.. I need some reminder to keep back in track , "Gulp... can't believe I'm actually asking this.
"I'm glad you asking it, instead of provoking and brat -ing to me, "
20 strokes with canes, and I shall be good for a week.. hope so :))
So what do you think?20 strokes is just nothing to me, as I had an iron butt like my husband said. It just to remind whose the boss in the house and my duty as a wife n mother. That''s it. And I usually submit it well. It works well with me, so far.
my kitchen story
Last nite, I was doing dishes. Then I realized my kitchen is not so called "Martha Stewart" is kitchen. Darling husband promise to renovate a new kitchen for me next year, but last few days, he told me he could''t do it because he want to buy a piece of land from his mother. ( his mother ask, or should I said pushed him to do so because she desperately needs money; she didnt wnat to sell to other person.) To make it short, I'm not happy with his says and felt a bit depression looking at my unfinished kitchen.
We were in bed, and the kids were fall sleep.
"What is your problem
I want a new kitchen, blablablablablanlabla.. ( pouting) ""
"You need to learn to be more gratitude ,
You're selfish! "
Ok, lets go downstairs now .
Ï don't want to !
I let he going down first, 5 minutes later I followed him. We talked n talk, provoking each other.
Its really tense, there's no air to breathe. Finally
"Ok, I'' ll do your kitchen end of this year. But we cannot go to Boston next year,
"Boston? "But u didn't say that earlier !"
"I 'm planning to do my post doctorate there ,
""I don't want new kitchen, I just want to get out from this place n go to Boston "
He smiled. "Do you realize where are you from? "
"I know but I don't like here. I never gonna fit living here. ( especially with your family.. huhuhuhu)"
To make is short, we agreed to hold the kitchen project after back from Boston, which is still in planning. He need to get a place there and once confirmed.. bye-bye XXXXXX. Can't wait to start new life at new place. Gosh, how much I hate this place.
"You know what you're doing tonite, "he asked me, in strict n firm voice,
"Err.. I dont know.. may be á little provoking ..
"Disrespecting me and ignoring our son. You know what S told me? He said I done nothing, why mummy didn't want to talk with me?
Oh God, now I'm being selfishto my own kids. I just a bit upset n couldn't say any words to anobody. I'm so frustrated with my husband and I ignored him.Mummy is very sorry dear, I'll promise I won't treat like that again...
Of course I received the caning in two set. First is horrible ; I didn't submit and he kind a bit angry with me so I got the full strokes. The second one I calm down, and it more gentle then the first one. It bring me a peace of mind later. Everything is settle n forgiven. I hope so.
Conclusion?
When we were in Canada, we 're by ourselves only; no family n relatives. But now we're in back home, everything is change. How I'm going to say this? Let just say I'm not a good/favorite daughter in law, ok?
We were in bed, and the kids were fall sleep.
"What is your problem
I want a new kitchen, blablablablablanlabla.. ( pouting) ""
"You need to learn to be more gratitude ,
You're selfish! "
Ok, lets go downstairs now .
Ï don't want to !
I let he going down first, 5 minutes later I followed him. We talked n talk, provoking each other.
Its really tense, there's no air to breathe. Finally
"Ok, I'' ll do your kitchen end of this year. But we cannot go to Boston next year,
"Boston? "But u didn't say that earlier !"
"I 'm planning to do my post doctorate there ,
""I don't want new kitchen, I just want to get out from this place n go to Boston "
He smiled. "Do you realize where are you from? "
"I know but I don't like here. I never gonna fit living here. ( especially with your family.. huhuhuhu)"
To make is short, we agreed to hold the kitchen project after back from Boston, which is still in planning. He need to get a place there and once confirmed.. bye-bye XXXXXX. Can't wait to start new life at new place. Gosh, how much I hate this place.
"You know what you're doing tonite, "he asked me, in strict n firm voice,
"Err.. I dont know.. may be á little provoking ..
"Disrespecting me and ignoring our son. You know what S told me? He said I done nothing, why mummy didn't want to talk with me?
Oh God, now I'm being selfishto my own kids. I just a bit upset n couldn't say any words to anobody. I'm so frustrated with my husband and I ignored him.Mummy is very sorry dear, I'll promise I won't treat like that again...
Of course I received the caning in two set. First is horrible ; I didn't submit and he kind a bit angry with me so I got the full strokes. The second one I calm down, and it more gentle then the first one. It bring me a peace of mind later. Everything is settle n forgiven. I hope so.
Conclusion?
When we were in Canada, we 're by ourselves only; no family n relatives. But now we're in back home, everything is change. How I'm going to say this? Let just say I'm not a good/favorite daughter in law, ok?
Introduction
My name is Angelin. I'm a wife n a mother of two. We lived in TTWD almost 4 years. I'm an average and normal person like others. It just sometime I need to be corrected by my husband. He is very loving and charming . We used to be a romantic couple in the perfect marriage during our early TTWD days. Now? I don't know. Life in TTWD is perfect except one; in real life we have family and friends. A lots of sacrifice had to make. I'm not truly happy with it. So this is my stories n my journey.....
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